Calm in Chaos

A sanctuary for care-weary matriarchs

Escape the emotional cyclone, embrace tranquility and joy through unique group classes.

Calm in Chaos

A sanctuary for care-weary matriarchs

Escape the emotional cyclone, embrace tranquility and joy through unique group classes.

Mindful

Matriarchs

Immerse in soothing somatic and meditation classes designed for mothers in transition to find calm and combat stress.

Connection through Movement

Engage in a unique series of dance sessions that combine fun with fitness, regulating your nervous system, and rejuvenating depleted energy levels.

Cup of

Care

Join a community of like-minded moms navigating similar life transitions in a supportive group setting, building bonds while simultaneously refilling your self-care cup.

About Me

Natalie Lawson, SRM, INHC has a passion for teaching children and adults alike. Most notably, her Professional Dance Teaching, SRM Facilitation, her Degree in Ed., and as a Certified Holistic Health Coach. She is a judgement-free witness to each client's journey.

In her journey, Natalie tried all the ways to be attuned and responsive to her four children. While this led her to have an extensive 'mom-toolbox,' it did not guarantee her success. Her "Aha" moment was the moment she started using her 'toolbox' to attune to the needs of her own fragmented nervous system.

Now, Natalie helps groups of clients reach their own "Aha" moments using dance movement, relaxing breath & stretches, self-soundwork, and patented inner-child imagery that comes from the Somatic Reparenting Method (SRM). This impactful work, demonstrates that re-connecting the body to emotions will restore one's sense of self every time.

Natalie's mission in teaching this method is to empower clients to show up to life attuned, responsive, and in a regulated way. And ultimately pass these skills on to the next humans.

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Testimonial

We really enjoyed our dance lesson with Natalie! She made it so fun and easy to learn. It was evident throughout the entire experience that Natalie has a great passion for dance. We would highly recommend Natalie for swing lessons!

Katelyn and Levi

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What Is Dancing Into Freedom?

Unveiling the Freeing Secret to Dance Like Nobody's Watching

June 10, 20246 min read

Dancing's like discovering a hidden gem within us—a timeless celebration waiting to burst forth. Yet, we often hold back, fearing judgment. But the secret to dancing freely? It's shedding those worries and embracing the rhythm. So, let's kick off our shoes, forget the critics, and dance like nobody's watching. It's not about perfection; it's about embracing life's beat.

In this blog, we'll delve into this freeing secret and explore how it can transform our dance experience.

What Is Dancing Into Freedom?

Dancing into freedom is like breaking free from invisible shackles, where every step becomes a declaration of independence. It's about transcending self-imposed limitations and societal expectations, allowing the rhythm to guide you towards a state of pure liberation. 

In this dance of life, each movement is a celebration of freedom, a joyful expression of our inherent human spirit. So, let's kick off our fears, sway to the beat, and dance our way into boundless freedom.

The Psychology Behind Self-Consciousness in Dance

Ever felt like your feet were suddenly glued to the floor when the music started pumping? That's the psychology of self-consciousness in dance at play. It's like having an inner critic sitting on your shoulder, whispering doubts about your moves. Maybe you worry about looking awkward or uncoordinated. 

Self-consciousness often stems from a fear of judgment, whether it's from others or ourselves. It's like trying to dance with a cloud of uncertainty hanging over your head, but once you realize that everyone's too busy enjoying themselves to scrutinize your every step, you can start grooving with confidence.

But fear not, fellow dancer! There's a light at the end of the tunnel. It's all about shifting that mindset from self-doubt to self-expression. So next time you hit the dance floor, remember: it's not about impressing anyone—it's about letting loose, feeling the music, and embracing the joy of movement. 

How Mindfulness Enhances Your Dance Experience

You know when you're lost in the groove, feeling the music pulse through your veins? That's mindfulness in action, enhancing your dance experience like adding extra sprinkles on your ice cream. It's about tuning into the present moment, letting go of distractions, and immersing yourself fully in the dance. 

When you're mindful, every movement becomes deliberate, every step a conscious expression of your inner rhythm. It's like dancing with a heightened sense of awareness, where each beat becomes a reminder to stay present and savor the magic of the moment.

But hey, mindfulness isn't just about being all serious and zen-like. It's also about having fun and enjoying the dance floor antics. So, next time you're busting a move, try adding a dash of mindfulness to your routine. Trust me, it'll take your dance experience to a whole new level of awesome!

The Freeing Secret To Dance Like Nobody's Watching  

The freeing secret to dance like nobody's watching lies in embracing authenticity and letting go of inhibitions. Here's how you can unlock this secret:

1. Embrace Your Unique Style: 

Dancing is a form of self-expression, and just like fingerprints, everyone's style is distinctively their own. Whether you're naturally graceful or more inclined towards spontaneous, energetic movements, it's essential to embrace and celebrate what makes your dance unique. 

Your body is an instrument through which your emotions and personality are communicated, so allowing it to move freely without reservations can be incredibly liberating. Instead of trying to conform to a particular standard or mimic someone else's style, honor your body's natural rhythm and let it guide your movements. 

2. Focus on the Moment: 

Dancing is a sensory experience that engages not just your body but also your mind and soul. To truly immerse yourself in the joy of dancing, it's essential to shift your focus away from external distractions and worries about how you might appear to others. Instead, redirect your attention to the present moment. 

Focus on the music's rhythm and melody, letting it guide your movements. Feel the beat coursing through you, the air on your skin, and the thrill of motion. Tuning into these sensations fosters mindfulness, melting away self-consciousness, leaving you deeply connected to the music and your body's movements.

3. Release Judgment: 

The fear of judgment is a common barrier that often prevents people from fully enjoying the experience of dancing. Whether it's the fear of being ridiculed by others or the harsh inner critic that whispers doubts in your ear, learning to let go of judgment is crucial for dancing freely. 

Remind yourself that dancing is a personal expression of joy and self-expression, and it's not about meeting anyone else's standards or expectations. Most people are too preoccupied with their own enjoyment to pay much attention to how others are dancing, so release the need for external validation and focus instead on the pleasure that dancing brings you. 

4. Practice Self-Compassion: 

Learning to dance freely can sometimes feel daunting, especially if you're still mastering certain moves or battling self-doubt. In these moments, it's crucial to be gentle with yourself. Self-compassion involves treating yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would offer to a friend. 

Instead of being overly critical of your perceived mistakes or shortcomings, celebrate your progress no matter how small. Understand that learning and growth take time, and every step you take towards dancing with more freedom is a victory worth acknowledging. 

5. Dance for Yourself: 

While the idea of dancing like nobody's watching implies freedom from external scrutiny, it's also about reclaiming dance as a deeply personal experience. Instead of dancing to impress or entertain others, focus on dancing for your own sake. 

Allow yourself to be guided by the sheer pleasure and catharsis that dancing brings to you, without worrying about how you might be perceived by an audience. When you dance for yourself, you tap into a profound sense of liberation, where creativity flows uninhibited and every movement becomes an expression of your innermost emotions and desires.

Conclusion

Embracing authenticity, living in the moment, and releasing inhibitions are the keys to dancing like nobody's watching—a journey of self-discovery and self-expression. Let the music be your guide as you unleash the full potential of your dance experience. So, when your favorite song plays next, don't hold back. Dance freely and revel in the joy of uninhibited expression.

FAQs

1. What if I'm not a skilled dancer? 

Dancing isn't about skill or technique; it's about self-expression and enjoyment. Embrace your unique style and focus on the pleasure of movement rather than perfection.

2. How can I overcome self-consciousness when dancing in public?

Start by dancing in private spaces where you feel comfortable, then gradually expose yourself to dancing in public. Remember that most people are too preoccupied with their own lives to judge your dancing.

3. Can anyone learn to dance like nobody's watching? 

Absolutely! Dancing is a universal form of expression that transcends age, gender, and skill level. All it takes is a willingness to let go and embrace the joy of movement.

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